Monday, November 24, 2008 1:05 AM
Something i found
I found something while reading through peoples blog..And i think it is so true..Why must a girl be sad for what a guy said to her??I used to be..but why not think on the other side..If u loose some1 u love..u can still love them..You can still be their friend..You dont have to have them even if u love them..Wouldnt you be happy if you see the person you love/like is happy??I will....if u wanna read the real copy go to her blog..http://writtenincolours.blogspot.com
i enjoy reeading her blog..especially her latest post which is posted on the 19 of november 2008..btw i edited the post..sorry christy..
have you ever asked yourself this question about the 1 you love??
How sure are u he loves u??
Because he said so??Did he show u that he love u??He might have when he loved u before..But does he still do so??Time changes people.Emotions come and go as time passes.feelings fade away too it's unfortunate and sad..but i guess..this is just the way life is right??
next if you are sure he loves you.
what has he actually done for you??
Gave u a present??gave u a kiss??Hold your hands??give u a hug??i can't deny,those actions..they do impress you and make u fall for them more..Dont be suprise if it's just play he is putting up for u
If you know he doesnt love you anymore.if his friends have told you he said he wants to leave u.If tht guy ask you whether can you break up.then he is not worth you.why bother being with some1 who doesnt love you??why do u still want to sacrifice for him??he is after all not going to appreciate itletting go is the hardest thing to go.but u have to try!if he is not yours then just let go..
what you feel only matters to you.it's what you do that matters to the one that you love..
I'll do anything for the one i love.i have heard that alot of times.It just seem like a saying ppl say to win some one's heart.if you would do whatever for the one you love.it's simple.all you have to do is do whatever it takes.
Who said you have to jump down a building to prove u love some one?who said u need to let go of life just because you love someone?it'll just prove that you are stupid and crazy..just do whatever it takes whether it hurts you or not...
The end..
From me myself..
If you,your friend or some1 loose some one they love...all you or your friends will say it's the other's fault..why not thinking the other side??through what i think..it cant fully be their fault...why not blaming yourself for not doing your best to keep them and their love for yourself?why not doing your best to make them only talk or look at you..the 1 and only girl/guy they see??
you cant force some one you love to love u..even if you can..in the end..everybody will be sad..instead of having everybody sad..why not let the person go..and have yourself to be the only person sad?you cant be selfish..isnt it that having the one u love to be happy will make yourself happy??to me that is..even if i can't have the person i love..as long as he is happy i wont mind being the 1 with miseries..well,atleast u have those memories with him/her...
aren't you glad enough to have those memories??to me that is enough...as long as he is happy..i'm happy..i cant force him to love me..feelings fade as time goes by...if i see the person i love sad..i will be sad for them too..maybe sadder than them...and if u see the 1 you love sad and u cant do anything to help them..it will make it worst..so why not let them go..let them find their own happiness..find the 1 and only person they truly love and make sure they are happy..let them do what they want..and all you have to do for themis help them with it..help them through all their ups and downs..other than being their gf or bf..you can be their best fren,close fren,pet sis,pet bro,normal fren??it's better than nothing..
To those ppl who think i'm crapping sorry..but i'm just telling what i think..and what i agree from christy's post..and sorry for leaving my blog dead...i'll post bout the school end thinggy soon..i mls nak post..got too many pictures..X-)
Bye bye..Enjoy reading..enjoy your day readers...have fun in your holidays..take care..<3
Monday, November 10, 2008 4:15 AM
Sorry!
Sorry people!Sry for not updating my blog for more than 50yearS!!i'll update a post a.s.a.p..Thx jane!!<3
